Stories of peer pressure, love, marriage, schools, siblings, friendship, passion, protest, cycling, and activism wrapped in to five beautiful short films made by a group of gay, lesbian and trans filmmakers. Now online for free. For the first time ever, in partnership with the British Council’s fiveFilms4freedom project, five short films from BFI Flare: London LGBT Film Festival are available to watch online, for free, worldwide. Click here to watch and click here to read more.
On a related note, there are a set of films being brought down to the Goethe-Institut/Max Mueller Bhavan Chennai by three curators from Germany. They will present works addressing various kinds of conflict around issues of nationality, ethnicity, gender and sexual identity, family history and migration. They look into which cinematic languages are appropriate to show case stories of conflict and how cinema might shape our understanding of conflict. Everybody is welcome and entry is free. Here is the poster – (Event on Facebook)
from Livemint.com (click to read full article)
Urvashi Butalia runs a publishing house called Zubaan: an imprint of Kali for women. Childless, Naturally is part of a just published collection, Of Mothers and Others: Stories, Essays, Poems, edited by Jaishree Misra. Urvashi writes,
I’ve set up my own publishing house, publishing books by and about women. I am fiercely passionate about this, it’s what gives me joy, it’s what involves me, I know this is what I want to do all my life. I want somehow to make a dent in the way the world sees women, to be part of that change. Is this madness, this obsession? Why didn’t I feel this way about children? Or am I just deflecting an unfulfilled desire? I’m told motherhood is a woman’s destiny, it’s what completes her. So what’s all this about publishing? But I don’t feel incomplete, or that I have missed my destiny. Is there something wrong with me?
In this essay, she explores how we choose to understand a woman and motherhood as one and the same. She asks, who is a mother? Does motherhood come naturally to a woman? Is it selfish if a woman is unwilling to have children? Can anyone be a mother? Can motherhood be learned? Is motherhood about unconditional love? If so, how or why do children pay back? Can mothers be violent? Is the relationship between a mother and a child always a wonderful one?
Childless, Naturally is very beautifully written. Please send it to anyone you know.
Families are diverse. Courtesy: Gender Anarchy
- I am an un-mother (viewsfromtheredbrickroad.wordpress.com)
- The Mommy Myth (emilyjanuary.wordpress.com)
- On Being Childless, Childfree, and True (gloriabowman.com)
Sometimes it is hard to keep up the promises of posting in regularity. However, here’s one more gem from our library. David Ebershoff is the publishing director of The Modern Library, a division of Random House, and the author of The Rose City (which we haven’t yet read). The Danish Girl is his first novel, and probably one of the most beautiful and stunning piece of work that explores sex and gender, love and marriage.
Inspired by the true story of Danish painter Einar Wegener and his California-born wife, this tender portrait of a marriage asks: What do you do when someone you love wants to change? It starts with a question, a simple favour asked of a husband by his wife on an afternoon chilled by the Baltic wind while both are painting in their studio. Her portrait model has canceled; would he slip into a pair of women’s shoes and stockings for a few moments so she can finish the painting on time? “Of course,” he answers. “Anything at all.” Whit that, one of the most passionate and unusual love stories of the twentieth century begins.
Yes, if you know where we live, you’re welcome to come and read this. We are a little touchy just like any other book owners about letting you borrow. Just in case you don’t find us, you’ll find the book on Amazon or Flipkart.